Anne Lister: "Gentleman Jack"

“I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world.”
 

Anne Lister (1791 – 1840)  also known as “Gentleman Jack”, was an English landowner and diarist from West Yorkshire in England. Lister is often hailed as "the first modern lesbian" for her clear self-knowledge and openly lesbian lifestyle.  Known as "Fred" by her lover and "Gentleman Jack" by her locals, she suffered harassment for her sexuality but also earned a begrudging respect amongst the nobles and their tenants of her society.

The eldest of two daughters, Anne inherited her family estate with numerous tenants. In addition she owned other property, shares in the canal, railway, and mining industries. These financial investments earned her a considerable income which granted a degree of freedom unusual for ladies of that class in her time. This income funded her travels around Europe, for which she was well-known and about which she was extremely passionate.

However, more so than for her travels, Lister was kown for her masculine appearance and behaviour, and her intimate relationships with notable artistocractic women.  She only ever wore black, and partook in many activities which were traditionally reserved for men. This earned her the  famous nickname “Gentleman Jack”.

“I love and only love the fairer sex and thus beloved by them in turn, my heart revolts from any love but theirs.”

Lister’s true love was Ann Walker, a wealthy heiress in her own right. The pair began a relationship in 1832. However, the most extraordinary part of their story is that they made the decision to publically marry and live together as a couple. They attended church together in 1834 and henceforth considered themselves “married”, despite a lack of legal recognition. The church has since described this moment as: "an icon for what is interpreted as…the first lesbian marriage to be held in Britain". Lister and Walker lived happily together at Shibden Hall, renovating the residence to their own tastes, until Lister passed away in 1840.



Another important aspect of Lister’s personality worth noting is that she had a strong Anglican faith throughout her life. This is especially poignant given the common notion that the church and thus Christians have historically been against homosexuality, and that the two were irreconcilable.

It is likely that Anne’s story would have been forgotten or at least covered up had it not been for the survival of her 4 million word diaries (written between 1806 and 1840). They contain 7,720 pages  - and about a sixth of them – those concerning the intimate details of her romantic and sexual relationships – were written in code (comprised of a combination of algebra and Ancient Greek).  The diaries discuss her lesbian identity and sexual affairs in great detail, as well as her methods of seduction. However, they also provide a fascinating inside into 19th century life as she also details social, political, and economic issues and day-to-day aspects of her life including the weather etc.

The code used in her diaries was deciphered by the last inhabitant of Shibden Hall, John Lister in the 1930s. He was advised to burn the diaries, but refused. In 2011, Anne’s diaries were added to the UNESCO Memory of the World Programme, stating that although a valuable account of the times, it was the "comprehensive and painfully honest account of lesbian life and reflections on her nature, however, which have made these diaries unique. They have shaped and continue to shape the direction of UK Gender Studies and Women's History."

Anne Lister is a truly important role model for women and the LGBT+ communities. Her material power, her gender-non-conforming dress and actions, as well as her pride in and refusal to hide her lesbian identity were remarkably courageous at the time, and her dedication to follow traditional Christian sacraments despite her sexuality debunks many myths about the irreconcilability of maintaining both strong Christian and lesbian identities. The power of the love felt between Lister and Walker is beautifully enduring. Finally, as an aspiring writer myself, I cannot help but admire her dedication to documenting her life, and thankful for it as it gives us a unique insight into what it meant to be a woman, a lesbian, a Christian, and a land-owner in 19th century Britain.

 


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